How To, Seasonal

Seasonal How to: Dress the Christmas Tree

So this is the first of my How to guides and to be perfectly honest it’ll probably be my favourite.  Dressing the Christmas tree is after all one of my favourite things to do.   I find it really therapeutic and relaxing, I do understand though that some people find it very stressful and feel they can’t seem to ‘get it right’.  With a little guidance and patience though you can achieve a lovely dressed Christmas tree without too much extra effort.

Now whether you go for the real deal or artificial the main principals of dressing the tree are the same so following the process below should have you a beautiful tree in no time at all.

Step 1:

Turn on the Christmas tunes and get your tree in position!
If it’s a real tree it’ll want a good drink of water so make sure your base has a well you can fill up and turn the tree around to find it’s best side. 
If it’s artificial be sure to spread out those branches.  It really makes a huge difference!

Step 2:

The first thing you’re going to dress the tree with are the Lights – Take them out of the box, plug them in and check all the bulbs are working.  If all is good the next thing is to take the string of lights and start at the top of the tree.  Wind the lights from side to side across the tree trying to keep as evenly spaced as possible.  If you can make the room dark do so, it makes it easier to see any big gaps so you can adjust accordingly.
I like to use 3 sets of lights on our tree; 2 sets of Warm White Cone style lights and a single string of Candle lights which give the tree a nod of traditional style.

Step 3:

Next comes the tinsel, now I’m not a huge tinsel fan but I like to use it to add depth to the tree by pushing it in towards the main trunk filling out any gaps between the branches and giving colour further into the tree.  I think this gives a much nicer effect than swaging it all over the tree. 

Step 4:

Beads – I use some lovely chunky bead strings on our tree (they’re about half and inch diameter beads.)  They are draped around the tree in the same way you do the lights.  I find the beads add colour and a sense of luxury without over powering the tree.  

Step 5:

Flowers – Now again this might not be everyone’s cup of tea but I love to use flowers on the Christmas tree.  I have sprigs of artificial Blossom, Mistletoe and some miscellaneous with butterflies.  Be sure to place these throughout the tree, ensuring they stick out enough to be seen overhanging the edges of the tree. 

Step 6:

Next come the Large Fabric Bows – I use wired ribbon for these as they hold their shape beautifully.  I’ve chosen a lovely white ribbon with a gorgeous scrolling tree detail also in white.  I use only a few placed sparsely over the tree.

Step 7:

This is the best bit, the baubles! When it comes to placing the baubles take your time and place them by size and colour combinations.  Larger baubles towards the bottom of the tree and smaller ones towards the top.  If you use sets of baubles try and make sure you space them out equally and if you can don’t place two of the same colour shape or size right next to each other otherwise it can look unbalanced.  Also don’t forget the tree is a 3D thing and the sides and back will need the same attention as the front.  Make sure the decorations aren’t all hung on just the ends of branches, create layers to add to that depth of decoration.  Step back away from the tree from time to time to check the balance of ornaments is right.  Another thing I always try to do is make sure my favourite baubles are in view from my favourite seat too!

Step 8:

The fairy! – No tree can be deemed dressed until it has a topper.  In our house we have Fairies and the one for our main tree is absolutely beautiful.  She’s always the very last decoration to adorn our tree.

Step 9:

Finish off with a beautiful tree skirt to complete the look!

There you have it, a beautifully dressed tree perfect for Father Christmas to leave your presents under on Christmas Eve!

Now as this is Georges 1st Christmas and 80% of our baubles are very fragile Glass ones with deep sentimental value we have chosen to baby proof the tree this year.  We have done this by way of a wooden play pen and it’s fantastic! Tree looks great and George loves having free reign still and being able to get close without touching it!

Baby proofed! We have pretty much 90% Glass baubles so for safetys sake the Wooden Play pen is a MUST!
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Christmas Traditions

So its nearly time for the tree to come down from the attic, the lights to be detangled and the spirit of Christmas to take over the house.  I really do love this time of year and one thing in particular is all the traditions that come with it.  As a child you often don’t realise just how special some of these things, that seems a little silly at the time, actually are!  Before I had the children I used to attend Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve however with little ones in tow that isn’t so practical anymore.  We do however strive to keep up as many traditions as we can and also create some new ones!

So I’m going to share with you some of our Christmas Traditions and maybe it will inspire you to start some new ones too!

  • Decorating the Tree – This is definitely my most selfish tradition…. only Mummy is allowed to dress the main trees.   You see the problem is I appear to suffer with the seasonal “illness” of so called “Perfect Ornament Placement Disorder” meaning that I deem no one else capable of decorating the main trees to the perfect standards I expect and love. No little mittens shall be getting involved with the precious glass ornaments here! Now YES this is SELFISH and YES Christmas is meant to be all about the children and in every other way it is but please don’t despair at me yet! I have solved the unfairness of the “P.O.P.D” issue by providing each child with their very own 2ft tree that they can decorate in any way they see fit and Mummy won’t get involved (promise!) unless they ask for help of course! 
    This tree dressing tradition has been ongoing ever since I got my own home and it’s one that sadly for anyone else is not going change anytime soon! #sorrynotsorry !
One of my “P.O.P.D” Christmas Trees
  • Miniature Village  – This tradition was started by my Auntie Ann who adored Christmas just as much if not more so than I do.  Her house was always filled to the brim with Christmas decorations and her Christmas Village scene was always amazing!  I began my collection when I got my own home and now have amassed rather a large amount of Lilliput lane cottages.  I love creating my Christmas Village and I try to make it different each year. This is also a very important tradition I would like in time to pass on to my children.
Christmas Village scene
  • A New Bauble/Decoration – This is a Tradition that started between my Mother and I when I got my own house.  We buy each other a new tree/Christmas decoration every year, the challenge is generally trying to find something to fit our strict colour schemes! (I do believe Mother has the same “P.O.P.D” as me but she just isn’t as reactive as I am!) 
    I really love this tradition because I just love bauble/decoration shopping, and this gives me the perfect excuse to usually find some more for us too!  Over the past few years I have started buying my eldest a decoration each year for his tree too and I hope in time he will also continue on this tradition.  Georges 1st Christmas will see him receive his own special tree and 1st Christmas Bauble which I had handmade especially for us by Dudley & Roo.
George’s 1st Christmas Decoration – Picture Credit Dudley & Roo
  • Chocolate Tubs/Tins – So this is a special and very dear tradition to me, one I remember as a child and one I am making sure my children will always continue.  My Grandad George started this tradition and it is now impossible for me to not do it!  Roses or Quality Street it doesn’t matter which but it has to be the big round/hexagonal tubs. 
    So the tradition goes that you take the tub of sweets and before anyone is allowed to eat a single chocolate you have to tip the entire contents out onto a table or better still the floor and sort them into their different varieties.  Once you’ve sorted them only then can you select only 3 chocolates you would like to eat.  Once you’ve made your choices you then have to mix all the other chocolates back up and put them back in the tub ready for next time. 
    Now I’m almost certain Grandad made this up just so I wouldn’t sit there eating all the sweeties but I’m so very pleased he did.  It is one of my fondest memories of him and of family Christmases when I was young.  It is so important to me hat this is done each time you open the sweets tub in our house and regardless of if you’re guest or not you’ll be obliged to join in too!
Roses Chocolates – Picture Credit Amazon
  • Chocolate Gold Coins – This is another Grandad tradition, when I was little he used to hide chocolate gold coins all about my Mum & Dads house when he came to visit so I could go off and find them! Such a nice little treat to do when visiting friends or family with young children around Christmas time (just be careful if they have dogs that they are shut out or that the chocolate is safely out of their reach and of course ask Mum & Dads permission first!)
Gold Chocolate Coins – Picture Credit Amazon
  • Films – Ok so this is a bit more of a vague tradition but over the Christmas period I will always watch all the Harry Potter films and The Polar Express even if the kids aren’t interested!
Harry Potter DVD Boxset – Picture Credit Amazon
The Polar Express DVD – Picture Credit Amazon
  • Christmas Eve – So far we’ve stuck to the fairly traditional plate with a Carrot for the Reindeer with a Mince Pie and Schooner of Port for Santa (as rumour has it Santa prefers Port to Whiskey if you know what I mean, wink wink). We also hang up Santa’s special key and some years ago we also left Sparkly Reindeer food outside too (although at the time we didn’t realise just how harmful those glittery mixes were so we’ll definitely be searching for an Eco wildlife friendly version in future!).  Now unfortunately Santa was a bit heavy handed a few years ago and broke his special key to our house so this year we had Dudley& Roo make us a lovely new one that we hope Santa will look after a bit better!
    This year we are looking into doing Christmas Eve Boxes as this seems to be a really sweet idea that’s very on trend at the moment.  I love the idea of the kiddies having a surprise little token pre-present and lovely new Christmas themed bedtime story with a mug of Hot Chocolate and maybe even some Lebkuchen, who knows the possibilities are endless! I found these lovely ones from Seth & Noah.
Seth & Noah Christmas Eve Boxes – Picture Credit Seth & Noah
  • Present Opening – Tradition for us is this is done first thing in the morning but not before 6:30am! I have two rules after that the first being; I get a coffee before we even start and the second; that before you move onto opening the next present you let me make a note of who bought you it otherwise the thank you cards can go VERY wrong!
Coffee 1st – Polar Bear Mug
  • Crackers – In our house you simply can’t have Christmas dinner without pulling a cracker first!  We try and go for ones with useful things inside rather than cheap plasticcy things that are of no use nor ornament! I’ll be on the look out for more Eco-friendly ones this year, maybe even some Charity ones. I found these Mistletoe ones at Graham & Green!
Set of 6 Mistletoe Eco Christmas Crackers – Photo Credit Graham & Green
  • The Food – Again we’ve always kept things very traditional and cooked either Turkey or Goose, my personal favourite being the Goose.  I always make sure we buy local meat and last year ordered a fantastic Christmas Meat Hamper from Simpsons.   No Christmas day meal is complete without a Christmas Pud despite no one else in the house liking it! I have to have one and I love the whole tradition of setting the Pud on fire and making a wish before the flame dies out. Granted this can go wrong in so many ways (and on the odd occasion it has, setting light to not only myself but the kitchen too!) but it simply wouldn’t be Christmas any other way!
Goose Christmas Dinner – Picture credit ukgamefair.wordpress.com
  • The Queens Speech – Now I am a Royalist and I am extremely proud of our English Heritage. For me the Queens Speech is the calm amongst the crazy of Christmas day and I love the tradition of everyone gathering together after dinner with a coffee or sherry and watching the Queen address the nation. Very humbling.
The Queens Speech – Picture credit the Express
  • Christmas Supper – Traditional Turkey and Mayonasie sandwiches! Nothing else will do!
Turkey & Mayonnaise sandwich – Picture credit Allsandwiches.com

So those are just a few of our families traditions, if you’ve got an interesting family Christmas tradition please let me know!

Just for Grownups

Grown up days out

We all know being a parent is tough, it’s fantastic, but just sometimes it gets a bit much! Some people may frown at that but that’s ok, they might be SUPER MUM or SUPER DAD but for little old me it truly can get a little overbearing at times. That’s when a Grown-Up day out can save my sanity!

Now I would never say I prefer a grown-up day out more than a family day out because I adore taking the kids out with us but there are some places that kids just don’t want to go! It’s easier when they’re younger as they don’t really have an opinion and just go where you go BUT as they get bigger, more hormonal and attitudal TRUST ME you’ll be lucky to drag them out of their room for food let alone go out!

So the grown-up day out relieves all that stress and agro! No huge heavy changing bags to lug about, no pushchair to wrestle in/out the car or up and down steps, no thinking about what time they need feeding next, dirty bums, or where the nearest toilet is, no constant questioning of ‘When are we going home?’ or ‘How much longer are we gonna be here?’! Just drop them off with the sitter/grandparents/nursery/childminder and away you go!

A grown-up day out is, quite simply, delightful!

My Fiancé and I have been on a few Grown-up days out and over the next few weeks I’ll happily be sharing with you my favourites so far.

So to set the ball rolling here’s the first….

Chatsworth House & Gardens

Home of the Duke & Duchess of Devonshire and passed down through 16 generations of the Cavendish family Chatsworth House is located in the Peak District, Derbyshire and quite simply it is breath-taking!

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The glorious gilt façade glistening golden in the Autumn sunlight is truly a spectacle to behold! The gardens are equally beautiful throughout the year with their glorious water features and stunning planting.  When you go inside you are sure to be blown away by the opulent beauty of the house, the vast collection of wonderful artworks is magnificent from paintings to sculptures and items of historical importance.

There really is nothing I don’t like about Chatsworth and although I’ve already been several times (with and without the kiddies) I could happily continue to come back again and again and never tire of the stunning landscape and of admiring the glorious house.

They run various events throughout the year, courses, exhibitions and activities.  I recently attended a herbalist course held in and around the Kitchen garden and found it to be very informative and thoroughly enjoyable.

From 10th November 2018 the house is dressed for Christmas, they have a different theme every year, and what a sight to behold! This years theme is Once Upon a Time and promises to be enchanting! I can’t wait!  The festivities also include the already sold out Masquerade Ball and I am determined ‘I shall go to the ball‘ one of these years!

The Café and restaurant serve fantastic food and the wonderful Orangery gift shop or in fact any of the gift shops are bound to entice you to take home a little memento of your visit!

I would say this is my perfect Grown-ups day out!

(I must add there are activities for children too, The farmyard and playground are a huge hit with the kiddies and they are made very welcome around the gardens and house too, although no pushchairs or backpack style carriers are allowed in the house.)

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Christmas Gift ideas: A Countrymans take

It’s that time of year when our thoughts turn towards the festivities to come!

As a family we all LOVE Christmas and we absolutely make a huge occasion of it. We love everything about it, dressing the trees (Yes we have more than one), decorating the outside of the house, buying the presents and the food, the nights snuggled up in front of the fire, watching Harry Potter Movies we’ve seen a million times before, eating as much chocolate as you can, and in my case sampling the odd schooner of Otima Port!

It usually falls to me to buy the gifts as I really do enjoy the process, yes I find it stressful but I love it when you find that perfect something for a special someone. Now I don’t spend mega bucks (mainly because I don’t have them to spend!) but I do take a great deal of time thinking what people would like and enjoy receiving. Yes I may get it completely wrong sometimes but again, with the amount of thought that goes into my gifts it is definitely that that counts!

I’ve found some lovely little shops, crafters and bespoke items this year and alongside some more familiar ones I wanted to share a few of these with you all and maybe give you a little inspiration:

DUDLEY & ROO
Amazing handmade jewellery and gift ideas! We had George’s christening cuff made here; I’ve also bought some beautiful silver jewellery items and several other Christmassy things like Santa’s Special Key and George’s 1st Christmas Bauble. Highly recommended!

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CLEEGLASS
I’ve purchased a lovely sea glass necklace from here; I love the concept of recycling the sea glass found locally! I’ve always been a huge beachcomber and have a small collection of sea glass I’ve collected over the years.  I can’t think of a better way to use the glass than make stunning jewellery with it! I’ve got my eye on a sea glass ring next! (HINT HINT SANTA!)

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SETH & NOAH
This company supply a gorgeous selection wooden items for everyone! Lovely colours and the stacking rainbows are beautiful.  We’re having a ‘Believe’ Sign made for George’s room!

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THE CHOCOLAT STORY
These chocolates are quite simply stunning! When I first saw them I couldn’t believe my eyes!  They are on my Christmas wish list and I am certainly going to order some as gifts!

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POTTY FEET
Love these plant pot feet, I first found them at RHS Chatsworth and totally fell in love with them. They do loads of different designs but the Hunting scene ones are my favourite. A lovely gift idea.

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PIGEON ORGANICS
For that special little someone why not treat them to some beautiful new outfits from these amazing people! The ethical and organic cotton is super soft and washes and wears incredibly well. We fell in love with their Camper Van print but their new Vikings design is our Favourite from the Autumn/Winter collection.  I just wish we had a girl to treat to some of their lovely girly things too!

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BLADE & ROSE
Another idea for that little someone is some Blade & Rose Leggings! We have the Bus and Tractor ones for George and love them! Super comfy and soft and what’s even better is they come in a huge variety of designs! There are even special Christmassy ones!

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BEEBOMBS
Know someone who wants to help the Bees? These are the perfect little stocking filler all wrapped up in a lovely little hessian sack. Another thing on our Santa List!

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LITTLE GRIPPERS
Another lovely little stocking filler, socks that stay up! Great for little ones and bigger ones too! Lovely company with excellent customer service!

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MAMAS & PAPAS
So many LOVELY things to choose from here! Gorgeous outfits for the big day and some lovely toys too! We never fail to shop here without picking up something for George! Another great thing is they do vouchers so if you’re stuck what to get someone with a little one just get a Voucher and let them decide!

DAVID AUSTIN ROSES
I adore David Austin Roses, there are so many great gift ideas here or you could even arrange a day out as a Gift! This will be featuring in a future blog post all about grown up days out!

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HORSESHOE HEARTS & GIFTS
This company was shared by a blogger friend of mine and coming from a horsey background the moment I saw them I loved them! They just screamed quality! Such a stunning idea and the craftsmanship is outstanding! Perfect for horsey relatives or friends!

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MAISON BERGER
I love my burner from this company, so much so I bought one for my little boys Godmother as a thank you gift! They really are a special gift and the scents you can get are amazing. My personal favourites are Forest Mist and Cotton Caress.

FOR ME & FOR YOU
These gorgeous wooden coasters and wall art are absolutely lovely and come in a few different designs! Our eyes were caught by the lovely Fox coasters.

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MAXEYS FARM SHOP
A hamper is always a lovely gift to give and receive. I love making up my own hampers and usually end up back at Maxey’s buying all sorts of things to fill them to the brim with loveliness! Preserves, Chutneys, Pastas, Biscuits, Spirits even Lip Balms and Hand creams. You can make a hamper up using whatever you like! I’ve done them in Buckets, Baskets, Garden Planters and all sorts. You also don’t have to stick to the traditional savoury type ones, you could do a sweet one, pampering, gardening, doggy, kitty, horsey whatever you like!

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BEESWAX WRAPS UK
These are a fantastic gift for someone like me who’s trying to be more Eco conscious! You use them instead of Clingfilm and they’re re-useable saving on plastics and great for the environment! They come in some lovely designs and different sizes to suit your needs! They even have a Turtle Charity Design donating 10% of the profits to Surfers Against Sewage.

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MY VISIBLE OBJECT
For something a bit different, have a look at these lovely quote leaves we found at My Visible Object! I discovered them at RHS Chatsworth and stupidly didn’t buy any whilst I was there, I ended up ordering two when I got home! I bought the Gertrude Jekyll and Audrey Hepburn ones best but could quite happily have more!

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FARMER CHRISTMAS
We love our Farmer Christmas book and he has a new one out this year! Perfect for adding to a Christmas Eve box! George is sure to like it!

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GILES & BELLA
Lovely little shop in Newark, Nottinghamshire stocking all manner of Country Attire! Stockists of Joules, Dubarry, Fairfax & Favour, Cath Kidston to name but a few! There really is something for everyone here and again Gift Vouchers are an option!

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OLD PIGGERY PRODUCTS
These are wonderful gifts, certainly something a little bit different, and with so many designs to choose from there’s sure to be one you fall for! We did!

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NO ORDINARY GIFT COMPANY
These North Pole style personalised baubles are just adorable! We has these made up a few years ago.  I shall be ordering a new one to commemorate George’s 1st Christmas!

Customised North Pole Baubles
Our families customised North Pole Baubles

EDEN HALL DAY SPA PACKAGE
Want to really treat someone special then you can’t go far wrong by getting them a day at Eden Hall.  I love the Thermal spa suite, the Caldarium and the Rose infused steam room.  You can buy a gift card or Treatments and it’s the perfect way to say I love you! My personal favourite treatments are Clarins but they do a wide selection of others and you could even add on a luxury afternoon tea! The brownie points are well and truly in the bag with this one!

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THE WILD STICK MAKER
How about commissioning a special stick? These are exquisite; the craftsmanship is second to none! Have one made of a loyal companion and give it as a gift, I couldn’t think of anything better!

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So that’s just a few gift ideas, I’ve got plenty more and if you’ve got a great idea you’d like to share why not go to our Facebook page and leave us a comment!